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im a single black male, financially, mentally an emotionally secure, but none of this really makes a difference. why? because of my photos. the black ladies who stop by my profile will look at my photo an since they dont see denzel or bill dee, im not interesting enough or ever worth the effort. the white ladies who stop by will only see a "black" man, an because of social or family, or just because i "might" be a drug dealer, or many of the stereo-types attached, its safer to move on, an again if not denzel, michel, or ever tiger, its not worth it..im just a simple man, looking for a lady who can see a man, a black man which much to , a woman who might be just alittle is tired of dependent men. a woman who is willing to let a man care for her needs, emotionally an financially, who will open doors, pull out your chair, shower you with gifts an just wants you loyality an respect in return. are you out there?? I'm looking for: i believe that a relationship is built on trust, honesty, communication, respect, loyality, lots n lots of passion(smile), an sharing. sharing ideas, dreams, thoughts, sharing the things that mean the most to us, things that hurt an have hurt us, our pains, an in sharing not to be judged or thought different of, but to be loved that much more. sharing builds the links an bridged between two people who truely want to know an care, n yes love one another, sharing is the tie that binds..i just seek this in a woman

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